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A most excellent wedding

August 17, 2008 By: topcat Category: Generalities

 Dustin and Mimi got married.  Wow, what an incredibly beautiful bride.  Steve thinks both him and Dustin married up.  I agree.  They are sure lucky men to have found such talented and beautiful wives. 

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Natalie and me had a blast getting ready together to go out, doing all the girl stuff — jewelry, painted nails, ‘what looks better, this or this?’  Natalie was going to a party that night.  I borrowed some clothes and accessories from her for the wedding.

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Anna is back from Africa, but not for long.  Next month she is moving to Washington, DC.  Boo!  And Heidi is back from Africa too after doing research for an art project.  Here are the African girls, after all, Egypt is in Africa too!

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Bird burial

August 17, 2008 By: topcat Category: Graeme, News from the hood

 Last week a bunch of neighbor kids came to the house with a mortally wounded young sparrow in a plastic cup.  (Probaby got caught by a cat.)  They brought it to me because I am “like a veterinarian and can fix animals.”  We put the bird in a shoe box with a lid and put the bird on a soft towel inside so the bird could calm down and rest.  I told the kids to come back in two hours and we will check the bird. 

About five minutes after the kids left the bird died.  When they came back I tried to soften the news.  I said, “you know sometimes you don’t get good news.”  One of them said, “yes, but I think we are going to get good news this time.”  I said, ‘no, you aren’t, the bird died.”  They were pretty upset.  The bird was already in rigor mortis so I gave them a little science lesson.   Then I read the email that Graeme had sent me about doing bird burials:

“Today I did the second bird-burial I’ve done in two days. Whenever I find dead animals I pick them up, bury them, and take a few minutes to show that someone cared about their existence. I think I’m all about love, however many problems I may have myself.”

I told them that they could have left that bird where they found it and not cared to help it.  But they brought it to me because they cared about it.  That really touched them.  They decided they wanted to bury the bird like Graeme did.  They named the bird Sunshine and they buried it right where Josie the cat is buried.  After they dug the hole and put the bird in they gently, handful by handful, filled the hole.  It was touching.

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Kitty update

August 17, 2008 By: topcat Category: Disadvantaged Cats, Graeme

Lucy, her official name, had six kitties.  I thought she had more inside because her belly was still so big after six, but that just shows my ignorance of cat anatomy and pregnancy.  Lucy got very sick after the delivery.  She was so sick that by Saturday I thought she was going to die.  I’ll spare you all the gross details.  It took a good week for her to gain control of her back end and start eating and drinking again. 

The kitties have more than doubled in size.  Their eyes are open and they are adorable.  Here is a picture of the newborn kitties.

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Here is what they look like now.

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Lucy has been adopted.  We are looking for excellent homes for the six kitties.  All adoptive families will have their bio, photos, the kitty’s bio, and an ongoing website to keep us posted on their kitty’s life.  All adoptive families will also receive a fine adoption certificate designed by Kevin.  

We have two boys, the tan kitties, and four girls.  Look at how adorable they are.  Sucking their thumbs.

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This is the runt.  She is still so little. 

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A close up.

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Six and still more inside

July 30, 2008 By: topcat Category: Disadvantaged Cats, Graeme

Wow, she’s had six kitties.

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See the little black and white one by her nose.  It is such a fighter but it is so small.   And it’s having a hard time finding a nipple.

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Look at her holding her baby!  She’s taking a break from labor.  I can still feel more inside her.

Labor begins — kitties today?

July 30, 2008 By: topcat Category: Disadvantaged Cats, Graeme

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Typically cats want to go and hide when they start labor but she jumped into my lap. (S0 did Midnight when she had her kitties.) She is definitely having contractions. Then I moved her into the house because it was too noisy and distracting outside and I think it may have stopped her labor. I put her in a dog kennel in the front porch where it’s quiet and safe. I’m going to video the births if I can.

Diving

July 29, 2008 By: topcat Category: Vacations

Nirvana — the Red Sea.

Before diving

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Getting ready to dive

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After diving

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Ronald McDonald smile before the dive

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After the dive — see the mask marks

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The bets are on

July 29, 2008 By: topcat Category: Disadvantaged Cats, Graeme

Who will win the bet as to what date the cat will have her kitties and how many she will have?

Hannah    Monday  5   (I lost)

Sandra    Tuesday    5

Cassie    Wednesday    4

Katie    Wednesday    5

Ken    Thursday    4

Kevin    Thursday    6

Luke    Friday    5

Jazz    Sunday    4

Today she is panting and looking a little haggard.  Poor girl.

Daddy-O took a tumble

July 27, 2008 By: topcat Category: Disadvantaged Cats, Generalities

My dad fell in the living room and scraped his face on the carpeting. He’s got a rug burn on his forehead and nose. He hit his face so hard it’s swollen under his eyes. He got dizzy after standing up too long entertaining the neighbor girl. It’s hard seeing him get older.

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The cat continues to get bigger. I hope she doesn’t have eight kitties. I was reading about cats this morning to learn more about what the signs are of imminent delivery and read this: “The future of pregnant stray cats is bleak at best. They may successfully give birth to a litter of kittens, only to see them die, one by one, either as a result of poor nutrition of the mother cat; defects caused by FeLV or FIV; or killed by tom cats or other predators. Those that are picked up by animal control officers or well-meaning passersby and taken to kill shelters are almost always euthanized. Many rescue groups make a practice of regularly visiting such shelters, to snatch pregnant cats from their date with death.”

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I’m going to post delivery video if she has them during the day.

Disadvantaged kitty

July 22, 2008 By: topcat Category: Disadvantaged Cats, Graeme

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Anyone that knew Graeme knows how much he loved cats. He considered it his calling in life to help disadvantaged cats. In his honor we have found a home for this cat. She is a homeless, pregnant female about to give birth. We will keep her at our house until she weans the kitties and then she will go to her adoptive home. Hopefully we can find homes for the kitties which also qualify as disadvantaged cats. If anyone is interested in adopting one of her kitties please contact me.

A River Runs Through It

June 11, 2008 By: topcat Category: Vacations

We haven’t been camping for quite a few years. We kept saying we would work and get the house done “this summer” so we could have fun next summer. But the house wouldn’t get done and we would miss another year of camping. So this year we said forget the house, we’re going camping. Oh, what we’ve missed. We explored the north shore from Duluth to the Canadian border.

We arrived at our campsite at Temperance River at 6:30pm Friday night. The campsite had a raised pad for the tent which was dry but the rest of the site was wet. Kevin put up the tent as I made dinner — a lovely fresh trout from the Wedge. Unfortunately Kevin tied a tarp rope to the picnic table and when he was trying to tighten the rope he knocked the pan off the stove and my trout dinner fell face down into the mud. What does a flexible camp cook do when faced with a muddy trout dinner? She washes the trout off and we eat it anyway. Then that night we discovered that we’d forgotten our pillows and hiking boots.

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Andy’s got his ball

The dog was another story. He doesn’t have a clear idea that he is a dog and dogs are meant to sleep on the ground. He was confused, scared, and cold. In order to get him to lay down and go to sleep I had to wrap him in my brand new sleeping bag. Having a muddy, shivering, shedding dog in my sleeping bag made for a long night. Kevin couldn’t get comfortable either. He felt like he was sleeping on a slant. The next morning we discovered a box of candles under his mattress.

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Morning coffee

The temperature was so cold we could see our breath in the morning. We still had water in our campsite the next morning.  When the sun came out we basked in its warmth and drank coffee. A hummingbird flew into our tent. By mistake I made oatmeal with white pepper instead of salt — rather strange to eat peppery oatmeal with maple syrup.

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Wet campsite

We went to the park office and told them about our wet site. So they moved us to one of the four best campsites in the whole park and right on the lake. The park had quite a few no-shows because of the weather. We lucked out.

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just down the shore from our campsite

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Right at the campsite

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Our campsite - mouth of the Temperance River

After we moved to our new site, we decided to hike the Superior Hiking Trail from the mouth of the Temperance River to Carlton Peak. We didn’t bring enough water. By the time we got to the peak we were tired, hot, and thirsty. We were hoping to lay in the wind at the top of the mountain and cool down, but the wind died down by the time we got to the peak. We only stayed a few minutes because of all the gnats. On the way down we saw fresh moose tracks with a calf. The dog had been acting strange just before we saw the tracks. My guess is he smelled the moose. We took a nap when we got back. Kevin woke up to the sound of a crow stealing our bag of Doritos.

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Carlton Peak

The Superior Hiking Trail is a national treasure. The trails are well-marked and each entry point along the trail is clearly marked. When hiking over rocky cliffs the trail is marked with stacked rocks. All the campgrounds have trail maps available. This area had received 4-5 inches of rain on Friday morning so many parts of the trial were quite wet. We did get wet feet because we didn’t have proper shoes. We walked over seven miles.

Saturday night I decided Andy was sleeping in the car. Sunday morning we woke up to the sound of Andy’s teeth chattering on the car door. I’m not sure what to make of his shivering. He thinks every river deserves a swim and he doesn’t shiver when he swims in Lake Superior.

Sunday we explored the north shore all the way to the Canadian border. There is one beautiful river after another all the way to Canada — all full of water from the rain. Kevin spotted a dead body draped over a log in the Cascade river. When we first saw it we thought it was a dummy. But after further investigation we decided it was a moose. We think it got washed downstream in the flood.

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The Cascade River

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See the dead moose?

We went to Grand Portage State Park and learned something interesting. Grand Portage got its name because its a 1000 year-old portage from Lake Superior to the Pigeon River above the falls. From this point you can canoe to the Atlantic Ocean, Pacific Ocean, Hudson Bay, or the Gulf of Mexico and there is no portage longer than the Grand Portage. It’s the beginning of the Boundary Waters.

We could see Isle Royale out in the distance. You can take a ferry to the island for $110 per person minimum. I thought that was pricy.   I’ve wanted to visit Isle Royale for several years, but I’d rather go by sailboat.

The Pigeon River is spectacular. The falls were roaring from all the rain. Grand Marias was reported to have had three feet of rain running down main street.

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Along Lake Superior north of Grand Marias

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The Pigeon River - Canadian border

After the Pigeon River we drove the Arrowhead Trail. I wanted to see a moose. We didn’t find a moose but we did see a deer and a black bear. By the time I got my camera out the bear was gone. What a surprise to see a bear. The forest was beautiful with so much variety. We drove back down the Gunflint Trail.

As part of this trip we researched all the State Parks along the north shore. I am starting a program in the fall for the neighbor kids. Next summer I hope to take them camping along the north shore. We wanted to check the parks to see which would work best for a group of kids. The three lower parks (Gooseberry Falls, Split Rock, and Tettegouche) seemed more controlled and tame. Tettegouche had beautiful campsites in both the lower and upper campgrounds, but I didn’t like hearing the road noise in the lower sites along the lake. Plus there was less shoreline to explore because of the cliffs.

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A Tettegouche prime campsite

Of the three upper State Parks (Temperance, Cascade, Judge Magney) only Temperance is on the lake. The other two are on the north side of highway 61. We also looked at a private campground just south of Temperance called Lamb’s Resort. They were great. I told them that we wanted to bring a group of kids camping next summer and they said they would get the local boys to take them up the Temperance River and go cliff jumping. FUN!

We also toured Wolf Ridge.  Wolf Ridge is an environmental education center set on 2000 acres of land.  Most of the Minneapolis 5th graders go to Wolf Ridge during the school year.  They had some good displays and taught some interesting classes.  But again, there was something too tame, to controlled, to ruley about the place.  I understand they have to be because of what they do.  But I want the kids to get a real taste of the untamed outdoors.  Where danger maybe lurks.  I want a place where I can be alone with no signs telling me to keep my dog on a leash.  A place where all I can hear are the honking geese, roaring rivers, and the wind in the trees.  A wild place.  A free place.

We are going camping today

June 06, 2008 By: topcat Category: Vacations

We are camping at Temperance River State Park on the north shore of Lake Superior almost to the Canadian border.  Why this weekend when the forecast predicts rain?

I made these reservations over a month ago and we got the last spot in the campground.  Kevin is going to New Jersey next week and Las Vegas the following week.  Then I leave for Egypt and Israel the week after that.  So this is the best weekend to go until the end of July when I get home.

If it doesn’t rain we are going to hike parts of the Superior Hiking Trail.  This area has some of the highest points on the trail.  Also the Temperance River cuts through a deep rocky gorge before entering Lake Superior at the campground.  The scenery should be spectacular.   The campground is right on Lake Superior.

If it does rain we have two big tarps.  We will sit under the tarps in the rain and read and still enjoy the great outdoors.  I’m reading The Rise and Fall of Alexandria and 1453.  I just finished two fantastic books: A Brief History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson and Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson.  I highly recommend both books.

We will be home on Tuesday, June 10th hopefully with some good photos.

We have a full house — and an intellectual in our midst

May 02, 2008 By: topcat Category: Generalities, News from the hood

We are a house of five — Kevin, Luke, Yuri, Jazz, and me. This morning Yuri (from St. Petersburg) and I went to the Global Market, drank coffee, discussed politics, history, communism, capitalism. What fun! Yuri lived through the transition from communism to capitalism in Russia. I asked him if their we good points of communism. Yes, people had more time to sit together and discuss literature and politics and listen to music. People we less obsessed with making money and had more time to relax.

I think Russians have a long tradition of rousing intellectual conversations. Yuri was surprised that I am knowledgeable and interested in foreign affairs and history. He was surprised I knew something about Russia. Most Americans don’t. That’s true. It seems to me that most people are interested in the mundane events of their lives or mindless entertainment.

Not me and Kevin. Give me a good intellectual conversation about the war in Iraq, communism versus capitalism, Islam, economics, history, current affairs, etc. Typical conversation bores me no end. Stimulating conversation with interesting, knowledgeable people is my favorite activity. Yuri likes to talk too. What fun!

I miss him

April 24, 2008 By: topcat Category: Graeme

The second year is definitely harder than the first.  Some days I just don’t want to go on.  How do I accept that I’m not going to see Graeme again for the rest of my life?  To know I’m never going to hear “Hi mom” ever again.  How do I carry on?  The world has lost its shine for me.

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We are going to Egypt and Israel

April 23, 2008 By: topcat Category: Vacations

It’s official — Ken, Tiffany and I got our airline tickets yesterday. We are going to Cairo on June 25 and returning home from Tel Aviv on July 20th. For part of our trip we are going to Sinbialween to visit friends. And we are going to my favorite place in the whole world — Sinai.

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The food — so delicious.

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On our way to the pyramids. See Izza in the back seat? I LOVE YOU!!!

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Neighbor kids

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Two of the finest people anywhere

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Our tour guides

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A busy week on the block

March 03, 2008 By: topcat Category: News from the hood

Wednesday: The police ram the door down and raid the house across the street.

Thursday: The police ram the door down and raid the house four houses down.

Friday: I hurt my back and am miserable.

Saturday: A murder at the end of the block.

Sunday: My neighbor across the street gets picked up by the police and his PO and hauled off to jail in handcuffs.

What is going on? I don’t know. As far as I can see the drug and prostitution activity has decreased in the last month. Rarely do I see dealers on the corner. So why has there been so many raids? If I hadn’t seen the police activity I would think this is a fine, quiet neighborhood.

Another note: Keyona and Jessica please email me and let me know if you need a password to post comments. I miss you both!!!! Let me know how you’re doing!

Happy Birthday Mom

February 25, 2008 By: topcat Category: Generalities

I hope she doesn’t read my blog before her birthday on February 27th. I’m taking a chance posting the picture. I used Duracrete for the first time (cement that hardens in one hour). Other than the fact that it’s expensive, I love the cement.

Here is the stepping stone:

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I am a hero — one tongue saved!

February 20, 2008 By: topcat Category: News from the hood

Yesterday I was walking to school when I heard what sounded like a infant crying a half a block away. I wondered who would need to have an infant out at 7:00 in the morning in the brutal cold (-11 below zero). All I could see was two kids standing by the corner, but no infant.

So I paid attention as I walked by the two of them and then I saw the problem. A fourth grade boy had his tongue frozen onto a metal pipe. He must have been there for a while because his tongue was torn and bleeding from him trying to pull it off the pipe. He didn’t just have the tip of his tongue stuck either. It looked like he had tried to lick the pole like a lollypop.

Thankfully Kevin had made me a thermos of hot coffee. I quickly poured a cup of coffee, covered his tongue with my hand, and poured the hot coffee onto the pipe. It took about three seconds for the coffee to thaw the pipe enough to unfreeze his tongue.

The poor kid. I walked him into the school bleeding and crying and sent him straight to the nurse. He came late to my first hour class. His tongue looked nasty. It was torn and bleeding and had about a dime sized spot that looked frostbitten.

I told another teacher about the frozen tongue and he told me that happened in downtown Minneapolis and they called the fire department to help the person. Thank God I had hot coffee with me. I know he won’t ever do that again — and neither will his sister.

Hey, do you have a stem I can borrow?

February 03, 2008 By: topcat Category: News from the hood

We were walking down the street a block from home and a woman called over and asked us if we had a stem (crack pipe) she could borrow. Now normally people will ask us for cigarettes, a light, some change for the bus, or if we are “looking” (to buy drugs). I’ve even been propositioned for sex. But a stem? Do we look like crack heads?

Guess who’s getting married?

January 30, 2008 By: topcat Category: News from the hood

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Melody and Blake are getting married on March 15th.  Great choice Blake.

Mmmm . . . I want more cakemilk

January 22, 2008 By: topcat Category: Generalities

Lucky us, we had Victor (almost two) come and visit for the weekend. He discovered cakemilk (eggnog) and drank so much he got diarrhea. We shouldn’t have let him have so much but he is so cute it was hard to say no. He even shared his cakemilk with Andy dog.

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